so yesterday i went for an haircut. wanted it short and simple, but it never is around here. having an hair cut in china is everything but trivial. chinese have a whole cult around cutting their hair for which i still don’t have a good explanation.

for starters, a barber shop is not just that. it’s usually a hair salon and a massage parlor and a spa, all-in-one. they are all open till late in the night and that’s when they get crowded with the clients. in many things, they resemble a bar: you go there at night, it has loads of colorful lights, loud disco music playing and a very young staff crew running around. chinese love it, which doesn’t necessarily mean foreigners do too.

if i overlook the fact that communication is always an issue, there’s still plenty of oddness involved. a simple man hair cut, as i see it, means sitting down, getting it cut, possibly a quick washing afterwards to tidy up, pay and leave. but not in china.

the whole ritual involves many runs to the sink to wash: before, after and in between. if it’s a real chinese place, after the first wash they will want to clean your ears with cotton swabs. and let me make that clear, they don’t hand you the cotton swabs for you to do it. they stick them into your ears and start swirling around while they get distracted with a passer by or look at the time.

and then there’s the massage act. it always comes in the package and sometimes is good, others not really. usually it starts by massaging the hair and then it goes down through the neck and might even reach the arms and hands. one would hope it’s soft and relaxing, but it’s not when they shake you so bad that make you look like having a seizure.

the one i went yesterday had a particularity: all their mirrors had written “you are quite attractive”, together with a large yellow smiley face. is this a whole new level of head washing which also includes the brain component? no idea. at least hair cutting in china is never boring, i’ll give them that.

one year and a half ago we arrived in shanghai eager to learn about a different culture and experience how is to live in a city with 15 million people. coming from an european country with little over 10 million – total, it was quite a change of scenario.

so was it professionally. i started by having do decide between going to the rat race of a large corporate company, or follow my passion for web development in a smaller company whose rooftop leaks in rainy days. i’ve decided for the later, and haven’t regret since.

but, life is made of decisions, and yet another big one just came by. it’s now time for me to rethink goals and trace a new plan for the future. to face the white canvas and pick the right crayons from the box.

and while the plan boils, it’s the perfect time for the geek in me to recover it’s digital life, and with it, save this long abandoned blog – more posts to come. it’s time to refresh.